The exit
No Button. Just an Email.
Look for a cancel button in GetHarder's terms and you won't find one. The subscription terms point web customers, for trials and plans alike, to one address: [email protected]. That's the method. Until someone there handles your request, the plan rolls over each time a period ends.
Deleting your account won't save you. The terms say so in plain words: closing the account doesn't end a subscription.
Two clauses to know
Trials first. When one is offered, the cutoff is a full day before it expires: 24 hours. Miss that and the charge goes through.
Then failed payments. If a renewal is declined, the terms let the company retry at a discount, anywhere from 50% to 95%, and the discount grows with each new attempt. Only after that does the plan get suspended. Letting a card expire is not a plan. Send the email.
Refunds
Money Back, With Conditions
The plan page carries a Money Back Guarantee badge. The refund policy is where the guarantee gets its rules, and there are several.
| Condition | What the policy asks |
|---|---|
| Deadline | 30 days from purchase, and before your period ends |
| Order of steps | Cancel first, then ask |
| How to ask | Email support; include the account's email address and the date of purchase |
| Kept back | $1 for transaction costs; currency and other fees not returned |
| Review | Support checks your usage history |
| Reply time | Within five business days |
"Reviews your usage history" is the line to notice. It suggests a refund isn't automatic, and that heavy use could count against you. The policy doesn't spell out how.
Where the law adds more
The terms give residents of the EEA and Switzerland a 14-day right to withdraw, minus whatever share of the service they've already used. California and Connecticut residents get three business days to cancel and receive everything back.
Card and crypto are both accepted. Solidgate shows up in the privacy policy as a processor, and the plan page says "Your payment is 100% anonymous!". We didn't pay, so we can't confirm how a charge looks on a statement.
The price
Three Plans, One Ticked for You
Credit where due: the prices are public. No account needed to read them. Here's the plan page as we saw it on November 8, 2026, in USD.
| Plan | Charged once | Per month | Per day (site) | "Was" |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| 1 month | $19.99 | $19.99 | $0.66 | $39.99 |
| 3 months | $44.99 | $15.00 | $0.49 | $99.99 |
| 12 months | $119.99 | $10.00 | $0.33 | $299.99 |
All three say 1,000 tokens every month. The yearly plan is preselected under a "Most recommended" ribbon. Leave it that way and you pay $119.99 upfront.
The ten-minute sale that never ends
A purple "Premium 70% OFF" banner runs a countdown at the top of every page. It starts a little under ten minutes. It also starts again whenever you open a new page, however long you've been browsing. The plans carry 50%, 55% and 60% labels. None is 70%. We'd treat the clock as decoration.
1,000 tokens, or 100?
The terms of service (version of February 25, 2026) tell a different story. Paying users get unlimited messages and 100 tokens a month. Free users get 2 messages. Plans are monthly or annual, with no 3-month option. The most likely reading is that the terms are out of date. The stakes are a factor of ten, though, so screenshot your checkout.
Token spend
What the Tokens Cover
Chat is part of the plan. Tokens are for extras: picture generation, voice notes and the pack shop, which sells bundles of pictures and clips starring the house characters. Token top-up prices stay hidden until you have an account. The packs don't.
| Pack | Tokens | Months at 1,000 | Months at 100 |
|---|---|---|---|
| Cheapest of 53 | 270 | 0.27 | 2.7 |
| 22 photos + 6 videos | 1,230 | 1.23 | 12.3 |
| Most expensive | 2,100 | 2.1 | 21 |
The last two columns are our arithmetic: how many months of included tokens each pack eats, on the pricing page's number and on the terms' number. Over half the shop (27 packs out of 53) is priced above 1,000 tokens. Two packs showed a discount, old price struck through.
Half the shop costs more than a month of tokens.
The generator spends tokens too. Two tabs, Image and Video. A model is mandatory for pictures; outfit, pose and scene are extras; batches go from 1 to 64. We couldn't see what that costs, because the button opened the subscription offer.
OurDream also prices its extras in its own currency, Dreamcoins, and our OurDream AI page shows what they unlock. Same lesson on both sites: the plan is the ticket, the currency is the spending money.
The good part
Seventeen Screens, Free to Try
Now the reason people sign up. The character creator runs to 17 screens, and every one of them works without logging in. We went through to the end.
Body
Seven screens: realistic or anime, an age band (20s to 60+), ethnic look, one body screen for height, build and proportions, then hair style and color, and finally eye color. At screen 8 a "Visuals ready!" message appears, followed by name and personality fields.
Backstory
Then the story screens. Relationship preference. Where the story starts, with over a dozen openings, stranger, roommate, colleague or ex among them. Kinks, with 14 visible and 47 more behind a button. Occupation, with 35 more tucked away the same way. Hobbies and interests. Personality. A "what you'd like to try" list. A voice from seven presets, Shy, Classy and Calm among them. A summary card at 17.
Random buttons sit on most screens. The first one also lets you type a free description instead ("..or describe your character").
What it leaves out
Men. Every catalogue tab is about women (Realistic, Anime, Premium, New, Community and the rest), and we found no male section. Community cards carry a creator's @handle, so user-built characters do reach the public catalogue.
The privacy policy names who runs the models: Groq, OpenAI, Together.ai and Fireworks AI for chat, Kling and "Nano Banana" for images, Deepgram and ElevenLabs for audio and "audio calls". We didn't subscribe, so chat and media quality are untested by us. Outside opinions vary wildly: 4.5 from spiced-ai, 7.6/10 from ai-girlfriend-review, 8.3/10 from ai-dating24, per the search snippets we saw.
Behind it
Who Runs It, What It Keeps
The company: Dragenia Limited, Cyprus, registration HE 479548, Larnakos 8, Limassol. Named in every legal page, plus a phone line in Cyprus and the support email in the footer. A loose end: the creator's preview picture came from cloud storage tagged "get_honey_prod". That label matches Get Honey, a comparable app registered to another Cyprus firm, Svitlo Limited, per its terms. Shared tech, maybe. Nothing more that we could find.
Data
The FAQ beside the plans says your chats stay with them. The privacy policy says more. Your prompts may be processed by the AI vendors above. Analytics: Amplitude, Google, Meta, Tableau. Advertising partners named include Snapchat, Meta, X, TikTok and Google. Do Not Track: not honored. Retention: whatever is "reasonably necessary", no fixed period.
The terms also take a "perpetual, irrevocable" right to publish and display what you create on the service. Assume your characters can go public.
Reviews
"Over 300k 5-star reviews", an "As featured in" banner, a "Recommended by users" strip of Verified women (Veronika, Grace, Isla, Yuki, Olivia, Anika and more). No source for any of it. Each name is also used by a character on the site. The brand has no Trustpilot profile anymore; a notice there cites a guidelines breach and stops there. Some adult brands lose profiles for their category alone, so it proves nothing on its own. It does leave you with no public customer reviews to read.
Wrong address
get-harder-ai.org ranks for the brand name and isn't the service. Its own terms call it an independent editorial site, not sponsored by Get Harder AI. Its buttons went nowhere for us. The real site is get-harder.today, and get-harder.ai redirects to it.
Rules
No sexual content with minors, or with characters who appear to be minors, "teen" and "schoolgirl" framing included; suspected cases go to the authorities. Other policies: DMCA, complaints, anti-slavery, removals, blocked content, underage content. A 2257 exemption is published.
The verdict
Sign Up If, Stay Away If
In its favor
- 17-screen builder, free to try
- Plan prices public, before sign-up
- Company and AI vendors named
- A written 30-day refund window
- Image batches up to 64
Against it
- Cancelling only by email
- Deleting the account doesn't stop billing
- Failed renewals get retried at a discount
- A countdown that never finishes
- 100 or 1,000 tokens, depending on the page
Sign up if
You want to build a female companion from the ground up, backstory and voice included, and you're organized enough to send a cancel email on day one. Start with the month.
Stay away if
You want to cancel from a settings page, you want male companions, or you plan to live in the content pack shop. If evolving memory, voice calls and deep customization are your shortlist, our OurDream AI guide is the place to compare.
Final score: 5.8 / 10
Of all the apps we've checked this round, this builder goes deepest, and the plan prices are in the open. The exit is the problem: email only, a fee on refunds, discounted retries on failed cards, and a sales page built on a clock that never stops. Add a cancel button and this score climbs.
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